Introduction
Hey, Babe! Welcome to my blog! My name is Hafsa, and I’m just an ordinary, not-so-special, average human being like you. Born in April 1999, you can do the math to calculate my age. Today, I want to share with you my personal journey of transformation, from a victim mindset to a life filled with hope, love, and blessings.
A Life of Struggles and Despair
The Early Years
I spent a significant part of my life trapped in a victim mindset. Throughout my teenage years and well into my early twenties, I felt unloved and lacked confidence and social skills. It seemed like everyone around me wanted to control my life, leaving me without a sense of personal autonomy.
Unrequited Love and Emotional Turmoil
During my teenage years, I fell deeply in love with one person. I mustered the courage to express my feelings, but we never entered into a relationship or maintained contact. He didn’t reciprocate my love, and his lack of care shattered me. The pain and rejection led me into severe depression, resulting in sleepless nights filled with blame towards him, my family, my financial struggles, and even my faith.
The Darkness Within
My emotional turmoil escalated, and I battled insomnia, constantly blaming others and feeling like a victim of my circumstances. I had frequent conflicts with my parents, convinced they couldn’t understand me. I carried the belief that no one on this planet could truly comprehend my pain. I resigned myself to a future filled with endless tears and unwanted company.
Realizations and the Journey of Self-Improvement
No One is Exempt from Suffering
If you’re reading this, I want you to know that I’m not sharing my story to compete with your pain. We all have our struggles, and even the most seemingly satisfied individuals have faced their own hardships. No celebrity, prophet, saint, happiness coach, you, or me can escape the inevitability of suffering. It’s not suffering itself that is negative, but rather our attempts to run away from it.
Embracing Personal Growth
In 2021, I embarked on a transformative journey of self-improvement. I dedicated myself to understanding life, human nature, mindset, and the healing process. Along the way, I discovered invaluable gems that significantly improved my life. Today, I find it challenging to express my immense gratitude for the transformation I’ve experienced. Even the person I loved for six years underwent a change, now gazing at me with a charming smile and a twinkle in his eyes (Mashallah). I find myself in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever known, surrounded by people who treat me differently. I have broken free from the control of others and have established a profound relationship with Allah (God), perceiving His presence everywhere. I seek His guidance, and He faithfully directs me.
Sharing the Journey
I am now the most loved, emotionally independent, blessed, grateful, and faithful person I have ever been. Filled with hope, people around me approach me for guidance. Motivated by my personal growth, I have shared my knowledge and insights with my loved ones, positively impacting their lives.
Blog Purpose and Topics
The purpose of this blog is to share the gems I’ve discovered with beautiful souls who may feel hopelessly stuck on their journey through life. I want to show you the path I’ve uncovered so that you don’t have to suffer needlessly. You are worthy of love, peace, and blessings. Instead of chasing after people and things, focus on improving your mentality and actions. Through my blog, I will delve into topics such as healthy relationships, self-improvement, spirituality, and perhaps touch on health and fitness.
Conclusion
That concludes my side of the story. Now it’s your turn to share. What’s your story? How can I assist you on your journey? Remember, you are responsible for your own well-being, so take good care of yourself.
Signing out for now, Hafsa