When I’m writing this blog, I have a fresh experience of making my ex want me back without talking to him. He broke up with me, and I was heartbroken. I kept wondering, “How do I get him back after a breakup?” I decided to try some strategies on myself without reaching out to him. Guess what? He came back to me within 15 days!
Imagine the power of making your ex want you back without saying a single word. These strategies work so well that if you apply them, he might come back to you in just one day. The secret to success is making both yourself and him believe that he is not the center of your world anymore.
In this blog, I will share the exact steps I took to make my ex realize what he was missing. If you follow these steps, you can make your ex want you back without even talking to him. Ready to take control? Let’s dive in!
10: Don’t Try to Get Him Back
This is the first and most crucial step. The more you try to get him back, the more he will pull away. When you constantly reach out, text, or try to see him, you come across as desperate. Desperation is not attractive and will only push him further away. So, if you want him back, stop acting like you want him. Stop putting in all those efforts to win him back. Instead, let him feel your absence. When you stop chasing him, he will start to wonder why. This creates a sense of mystery and curiosity, which can make him want to come back to you.
9: Put Energy into Yourself
All the energy you are spending on trying to save this broken relationship should be redirected towards yourself. Use this time to focus on your glow-up. This isn’t about revenge; it’s about doing it for yourself. Doll up, get your nails done, and invest in your appearance. When you look good, you feel good. More importantly, work on healing your anxious attachment style. This is the perfect time to address any emotional issues you may have. Seek therapy or read self-help books to understand and heal yourself. The better you feel about yourself, the more attractive you become, not just to him but to everyone around you. This newfound confidence can be incredibly magnetic, and before you know it, your ex might just be the one chasing you.
8: Stop Thinking About Him
Men can actually feel your energy when you are desperately thinking about them. As soon as you remove him from your mind, he’s going to sense that the attention has been taken away. It’s almost like a sixth sense. When I decided to stop thinking about my ex, it was a game-changer. I told myself, “I don’t care about him. Just forget him.” I removed thoughts about him for just one day, and to my surprise, the next day I received a text from him. It was like magic. To make it easier, I deleted his number and our chat history because I was too attached. As soon as I detached myself emotionally, he came running back. The key here is to shift your focus entirely. The moment you stop obsessing over him, he will start to miss the attention he once took for granted.
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7: Listen to Subliminals
One powerful tool that helped me during this process was listening to subliminal messages daily. Subliminals are audio recordings with messages designed to reprogram your subconscious mind. These messages can help you build confidence, self-love, and a sense of detachment from your ex. Our subconscious mind plays a significant role in creating our reality. By feeding it positive and empowering messages, you change your internal beliefs and, in turn, your external reality. Listening to subliminals helped me stay focused on myself and my goals, making me more attractive and confident. This change in energy was palpable, and my ex noticed it almost immediately.
6: Let Him Come to You
One of the most effective strategies to get back your ex is to let him come to you. This means resisting the urge to contact him first. Never initiate conversations or approach him. Instead, take proactive steps like deleting his number and avoiding inquiries about him through mutual friends. By doing this, you create a void that he may start to notice and fill. This approach shifts the dynamics of the relationship, making him realize your worth and allowing him the space to reconsider his feelings.
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5: Don’t Make Eye Contact
The old adage “out of sight, out of mind” holds true here. Avoid making eye contact with your ex. When you don’t acknowledge him visually, he will inevitably notice your absence. This absence can create a sense of longing and curiosity in him. It’s almost like a subtle form of punishment, making him realize what he’s missing out on. Additionally, refrain from showing any signs of pain or longing through your eyes. I’ve tried this myself, and trust me, displaying vulnerability doesn’t work. Instead, maintain your composure and let your absence speak louder than any words or looks could convey. This strategy can be incredibly powerful in making him reconsider and initiate contact on his own terms.
4: Be Happy Without Him
It’s essential to find happiness and fulfillment within yourself, independent of your ex. Engage in activities and entertainment that bring you joy, filling the void he left behind. Whether it’s binge-watching Netflix shows, diving into fiction books, or exploring new hobbies, immerse yourself in these activities during times you used to spend together. By doing so, you not only distract yourself but also reclaim your happiness and independence.
3: Set Some Personal Goals
Take advantage of this time to set and achieve personal goals. Perhaps you’ve been putting off important aspirations. Now is the perfect opportunity to prioritize them. Dedicate your energy and focus to these goals, whether they involve career advancements, fitness achievements, or personal development milestones. Setting clear objectives gives you purpose and direction, helping to rebuild your confidence and sense of self-worth outside of the relationship. Ultimately, achieving these goals will not only benefit you personally but also make you more attractive and fulfilled, regardless of whether your ex returns. Focus on your growth and success—it’s a surefire way to attract positivity and opportunities into your life.
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2: Ideal Man: Define Your Standards
It’s crucial to know what kind of person you truly want in your life. Ask yourself: Is he emotionally mature, respectful, and considerate of your feelings? Does he communicate openly and honestly, or does he leave you on “seen” and ghost you? Does he manipulate or mistreat you in any way? Reflect on how he treats you and prioritizes your relationship.
Now, think about your ex. Was he the man who met these standards? If not, it’s time to raise your expectations. If you desire your ex to be that ideal man, become the woman who deserves such a partner. Confident and self-assured women don’t beg for attention; they naturally attract admiration and respect.
1: Spoiler: He’s Coming Back
As you regain control of your own happiness and priorities, your ex will likely notice the shift. When he realizes he no longer holds power over your emotions, he may be compelled to reevaluate his feelings and actions. Ultimately, this self-assured stance increases the likelihood of him returning, drawn to the strong, self-respecting person you’ve become.
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Key Takeaways
- Let Him Come to You: Avoid initiating contact; let him feel your absence.
- Focus on Yourself: Channel energy into self-improvement, not relationship revival.
- Stop Thinking About Him: Shift focus away from him; remove emotional attachment.
- Use Subliminal Messages: Reprogram your subconscious for positive change.
- Avoid Eye Contact: Out of sight, out of mind; create curiosity by not engaging visually.
- Find Happiness Independently: Enjoy activities you love; fill his void with personal joy.
- Set Personal Goals: Achieve aspirations to boost self-worth and attract positivity.
- Define Your Ideal Man: Reflect on desired qualities; become the woman who deserves him.
- Empower Yourself: Take control of emotions and priorities; attract respect and admiration.
- Expect Positive Change: Regain emotional control; increase chances of his return naturally.
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