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How I *actually* Practice Self-Soothing for Anxious Attachment

Do you ever feel like your emotions control you instead of the other way around? If you struggle with anxious attachment style, you might feel intense fear when someone doesn’t text back right away or worry that your partner will leave you, even when there’s no real reason. These feelings can be overwhelming, but the good news is—you can learn to self-soothe and feel more secure in your relationships.

An anxious attachment style in relationships often comes from childhood experiences, like inconsistent love or emotional neglect. When you don’t feel safe as a child, your brain learns to seek constant reassurance in adulthood. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to stay stuck in this pattern. You can break anxious attachment style habits and start healing.

In this guide, you’ll learn how to heal an anxious attachment style using simple, powerful techniques. By practicing self-soothing, you can shift from anxious to secure and finally feel at peace in your relationships.

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10 *dumb* Mistakes to Avoid If You Have Anxious Attachment Style

Oh my God, this is my favorite topic to talk about! Being an anxious attachment style was one of the most painful experiences of my life, but it also taught me so much about human psychology and opened the door to endless growth. Now, I want to share that knowledge with you!

So, what exactly is anxious attachment style? It’s when you feel insecure in your relationships, constantly fearing that you might lose your partner. This fear can lead to clinginess, overthinking, and unhealthy patterns. But here’s the thing—it’s not your fault that you have an anxious attachment style, but it is your responsibility to stop repeating the same mistakes and stay stuck in the cycle. Trust me, life gets so much better once you break free from it.

In this blog, I’m going to share the top 10 mistakes you need to avoid if you have an anxious attachment style, so you can heal and enjoy a more secure, fulfilling relationship. Let’s dive in!