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Mental Health

How I *actually* Practice Self-Soothing for Anxious Attachment

Do you ever feel like your emotions control you instead of the other way around? If you struggle with anxious attachment style, you might feel intense fear when someone doesn’t text back right away or worry that your partner will leave you, even when there’s no real reason. These feelings can be overwhelming, but the good news is—you can learn to self-soothe and feel more secure in your relationships.

An anxious attachment style in relationships often comes from childhood experiences, like inconsistent love or emotional neglect. When you don’t feel safe as a child, your brain learns to seek constant reassurance in adulthood. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to stay stuck in this pattern. You can break anxious attachment style habits and start healing.

In this guide, you’ll learn how to heal an anxious attachment style using simple, powerful techniques. By practicing self-soothing, you can shift from anxious to secure and finally feel at peace in your relationships.

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Love And Relationship

10 *must-know* Things while Dating an Avoidant Attachment Style

What is an avoidant man? How do you deal with an avoidant partner? If you’re dating an avoidant attachment style who keeps their emotions locked away, you already know how confusing it can feel. As someone with an anxious attachment style, I used to think avoidant partners were impossible to love. Yet, here I am, three years into a relationship with an avoidant man—someone I’ve broken up with multiple times but am now marrying.

Some might call me crazy, but I call it commitment. Relationships take effort, and I’ve learned to invest mine in someone who’s also willing to grow. My partner isn’t perfect, and neither am I. This blog isn’t about excusing toxic behaviors like verbal or physical abuse (that’s not avoidant; that’s dangerous). Instead, it’s about understanding the avoidant attachment style—those who keep their emotions at arm’s length but aren’t out to hurt you intentionally.

If you’re curious about how to love an avoidant partner or dating an avoidant attachment style without losing yourself, keep reading. Here are 10 lessons I’ve learned while loving someone with an avoidant personality. Let’s dive in!

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Mental Health

10 *dumb* Mistakes to Avoid If You Have Anxious Attachment Style

Oh my God, this is my favorite topic to talk about! Being an anxious attachment style was one of the most painful experiences of my life, but it also taught me so much about human psychology and opened the door to endless growth. Now, I want to share that knowledge with you!

So, what exactly is anxious attachment style? It’s when you feel insecure in your relationships, constantly fearing that you might lose your partner. This fear can lead to clinginess, overthinking, and unhealthy patterns. But here’s the thing—it’s not your fault that you have an anxious attachment style, but it is your responsibility to stop repeating the same mistakes and stay stuck in the cycle. Trust me, life gets so much better once you break free from it.

In this blog, I’m going to share the top 10 mistakes you need to avoid if you have an anxious attachment style, so you can heal and enjoy a more secure, fulfilling relationship. Let’s dive in!

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Love And Relationship

What Do Men SECRETLY Crave In A Woman

For the past two years, I’ve been on a mission to uncover what men really want in a woman. I dove deep into relationship advice, watching videos, reading books, and most importantly, putting it all into practice in my own life. What I found out is that men secretly crave certain qualities in women, but they don’t always talk about them. These aren’t just theories; they actually work.

I used to think that being overly nice, always available, and trying too hard would make me more attractive to men. But I was wrong. Instead, it left me feeling frustrated and stuck. It wasn’t until I started adopting the habits that men want in a woman that I noticed a huge shift. Suddenly, my man became more attentive, more invested, and genuinely drawn to me.

In this blog, I’ll reveal the top 10 habits that men secretly want in a woman. These are habits I’ve personally tried and tested, and I can confidently say they’ll work for you too. Get ready to discover what men really want and transform your love life!