Being in a relationship with an emotionally avoidant man felt like an impossible task for me. As someone with an anxious attachment style, I know how frustrating it is to put in so much effort and not receive the same in return. At times, I thought this relationship would never work—I felt unloved, like he didn’t care as much as he used to. If you’re wondering why your avoidant man seems different now compared to the start of your relationship, don’t panic. He hasn’t lost his feelings for you. It’s just his avoidant attachment kicking in. Understanding avoidant men can be tricky, but it’s not impossible. In this blog, I’ll share a blueprint to help you thrive with an avoidant partner and feel loved in return. An avoidant man is like a scared cat—he needs security to feel safe, and I’ll show you exactly how to give him that.