In the early, dim hours before sunrise, I found myself caught in an unending cycle of doubt and confusion. I sent text messages, eagerly awaiting a response, but received only silence in return. Pouring my emotions into heartfelt messages, I hoped to bridge the growing emotional gap between us, yet the silence endured. Days turned into weeks, and I cried myself to sleep each night. Questions tormented my mind: Why had he become distant? When did our connection change? Was the issue with him or me?
The recurring thought, “But I didn’t do anything wrong,” became both my mantra and my prison. Little did I realize, it was the force repeatedly striking the walls of our relationship, reducing them to dust. This is the story of my journey through the maze of a victim mindset in relationships, a tale of vulnerability and self-discovery that has led me to explore the complexities of this mindset, its origins, and how to break free from its suffocating grip for the never ending healthy and Loving relationship.